I'm in love with the man that my best friend is marrying. I know it sounds awful but i can't help it. I'm married with a seriously ill child and as hes marrying my best friend i know it can never be but my heart is broken. My husband is very cold and persistently unfaithful and this man is the only person who knows and has been a wonderful help to me. One night he confessed that he was in love with me and we talked about it but given the situation we agreed it would be best not to let anything happen. I can't believe that i could be so awful as to want my friends fiance but i can't stop. I'm dreading her wedding and i don't know what to do, i wish i could find a way to switch off my feelings. I'd be grateful for any advice?
awh its sad for all of you, him, her, you. but she is your best friend . dont do it to her. she doesnt deserve it, even ye talking like that behind her back is cruel.
Apr 07, 2010 @ 02:19
i agree with the first reply there when ur starved of love in ur own relationship scraps off another persons table looks good... u deserve more from life than this get urself sorted missy u and ur child need love and support so seek it from the right sources - ur family and friends/cousellor !
Apr 06, 2010 @ 12:55
It's not awful to love and want someone.
You can turn this to your advantage. This man could become a best friend, a confidante and you could avoid sex?
Apr 02, 2010 @ 11:19
As harsh as this sounds... have sex with him. Once. Sex is a great cure for love.
Mar 14, 2010 @ 11:21
leave ur cheating husband. rejuvinate some self esteem! u are probably infatuated with this other guy cos he made u feel loved. this guy is taken. he has just compounded matters by opening up to u! don't bog urself down with the first nice fella that you connect with! the more experiences u have the more u see the wood from the trees!! go to your family, get yourself and your poor child out of this loveless environment! you need to talk with people u can trust.
Mar 12, 2010 @ 21:59
weddings mean nothing these days. once the honeymoon is over, you will both embark on a secret relationship!!
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awh its sad for all of you, him, her, you. but she is your best friend . dont do it to her. she doesnt deserve it, even ye talking like that behind her back is cruel.
i agree with the first reply there when ur starved of love in ur own relationship scraps off another persons table looks good... u deserve more from life than this get urself sorted missy u and ur child need love and support so seek it from the right sources - ur family and friends/cousellor !
It's not awful to love and want someone. You can turn this to your advantage. This man could become a best friend, a confidante and you could avoid sex?
As harsh as this sounds... have sex with him. Once. Sex is a great cure for love.
leave ur cheating husband. rejuvinate some self esteem! u are probably infatuated with this other guy cos he made u feel loved. this guy is taken. he has just compounded matters by opening up to u! don't bog urself down with the first nice fella that you connect with! the more experiences u have the more u see the wood from the trees!! go to your family, get yourself and your poor child out of this loveless environment! you need to talk with people u can trust.
weddings mean nothing these days. once the honeymoon is over, you will both embark on a secret relationship!!
What you have to say is important. Write it here. Thanks.