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Oct 06, 2009 @ 01:15|Comments (8)

dead father

When my father died I made myself cry at his graveside but all I could think was, I didn't really know him at all. I felt responsible for the fact that he drank his way through the sadness of his life, always feeling that I should have been the one to somehow save him. I'm still so sorry that I couldn't. Even at the end,I still didn't find the courage to say those three little words. It was only later on , when I had lost the chance, that I realised, I would have meant them. I love you.

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Some alt Text Dec 18, 2009 @ 17:51

you probly only thk you love him now because your rememberin the good times with out the bad.dont feel guilty, they're your feelings, no one can make you love somone

Some alt Text Oct 13, 2009 @ 22:28

to love someone is more than words. It isn't saying the words that makes it true. You showed him u loved him through your actions. Also, don't blame yourself, people make choices in life, he made his and that isn't your fault. Maybe u realize u loved him more than u thought?

Some alt Text Oct 11, 2009 @ 12:03

One thing to remember always, we are not responsible to for our parents, they are responsible for us.

Some alt Text Oct 10, 2009 @ 13:52

its a parents job to guide their kids,not the other way round so youv nothing to feel guilty about hun.you are not responsible nor at fault for how he lived he life.he knows now as im sure he always did that u love him.grief is an awful cross to bear (believe me i know)but it will get easier i promise,take care x

Some alt Text Oct 10, 2009 @ 02:15

not your fault. he had a problem that nobody could help him with except himself. stop feeling you could fix him. no-one could. dont feel guilty. your dad knows now that you love him.

Some alt Text Oct 09, 2009 @ 01:26

You've just told him x

Some alt Text Oct 08, 2009 @ 18:12

Tell him anyway

Some alt Text Oct 08, 2009 @ 02:43

ahhhh so sad made me cry go to his graveside an tell him but im sure he already knows that dnt blame urself or u may never move on

Lifes more interesting when you tell the truth.

dead father

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