I'm middleaged married with a loving wife and family.The problem is I've fallen for a younger woman,(Co workwer) I think she's fantastic and i can stop thinking about her.we've known each other for a couple of years and these feeling have been geeting stronger day by day. we get on great together, like similar things think along the same lines. when were together her body language suuests to me that she's into me to. I'm going insane with the thoughts of being with her. I so much want to tell her how I feel.I want to have an affair with this fantastic woman.
why not talk to this woman and see what she thinks?? maybe if you agree to a once off you could get it out of your system and then use the experience to help your marriage
Apr 11, 2010 @ 17:20
If you guys get together, do you get double staff discount? Brilliant recession-busting scheme!
Mar 23, 2010 @ 14:03
Go to Amsterdam for a weekend and get it out of your system....you'll probably find that all you needed was a "look"....otherwise, keep it tucked away and it WILL consume you.
Mar 17, 2010 @ 20:04
im sure u wouldnt have merried your wife if you didnt love her, there must have been something about her that made u want to spend the rest of your life with her... u have a familly to think of and not just u, think of your children and and how messed up theyd be.. AND UR WIFE??? how would she cope on her own??? ur beeing very selfish here... DO THE RIGHT THING
Mar 10, 2010 @ 00:12
YOU MAY BREAK UP YOUR FAMILY,JUST FOR SOMETHING THAT MAY ONLY LAST TWO MONTHS.
Feb 08, 2010 @ 15:26
Tempting as it may be - the truth always comes out, but in the meantime, there is this leaden feeling in your stomach that will eat away at you - trust me, I've been there
Jan 02, 2010 @ 21:33
please dont, my mum did this and broke up the familyy, her younger man dumped her after 10 years, and both my parents are without relationships and miserable. fight for love, the love of ur wife, there are ways to rekindle, look at all ye have made together, take pride in her, ur lady, ur kids, and urself. ur just a little scared...its ok as long as u dont act on it. and if u need a new distraction, take up a new outdoor activity or a sexy indoor one with ur wife!! :)
Dec 05, 2009 @ 18:01
Just do it, get it out of your system. Who's to say that's you're not destined to be together - you obviously don't love your wife any more.
Dec 03, 2009 @ 19:45
Thanks for your comments. I know your right. I love my family and dont want to destroy that. and what I have with this girl is speicial and I know if I do say anything to her I'm likely to destroy that as well. So I'm going to leave well enough alone. I just posted here to get it of my chest so to speak. For obvious reasons I could not talk about this to anyone and I felt like I was going to burst. so thanks for your comments
Dec 02, 2009 @ 23:41
if you feel that way now,you will stray either now or in the future..give your marraige a shot and if it doesnt work out better to get it sorted first,
Nov 25, 2009 @ 12:58
I hear you - but the minute you do it - you will feel deflated, anxious, totally messed up - dont do it - IF YOU ARE IN LOVE WITH YOUR WIFE AND WANT HER TO BE YOUR FUTURE - then dont do it -introduce a completely new sex life with your wife instead. dont throw away what is so hard to find. good luck with being a man.
Nov 24, 2009 @ 17:42
You are going to destroy your family if you do that.
What you have to say is important. Write it here. Thanks.
why not talk to this woman and see what she thinks?? maybe if you agree to a once off you could get it out of your system and then use the experience to help your marriage
If you guys get together, do you get double staff discount? Brilliant recession-busting scheme!
Go to Amsterdam for a weekend and get it out of your system....you'll probably find that all you needed was a "look"....otherwise, keep it tucked away and it WILL consume you.
im sure u wouldnt have merried your wife if you didnt love her, there must have been something about her that made u want to spend the rest of your life with her... u have a familly to think of and not just u, think of your children and and how messed up theyd be.. AND UR WIFE??? how would she cope on her own??? ur beeing very selfish here... DO THE RIGHT THING
YOU MAY BREAK UP YOUR FAMILY,JUST FOR SOMETHING THAT MAY ONLY LAST TWO MONTHS.
Tempting as it may be - the truth always comes out, but in the meantime, there is this leaden feeling in your stomach that will eat away at you - trust me, I've been there
please dont, my mum did this and broke up the familyy, her younger man dumped her after 10 years, and both my parents are without relationships and miserable. fight for love, the love of ur wife, there are ways to rekindle, look at all ye have made together, take pride in her, ur lady, ur kids, and urself. ur just a little scared...its ok as long as u dont act on it. and if u need a new distraction, take up a new outdoor activity or a sexy indoor one with ur wife!! :)
Just do it, get it out of your system. Who's to say that's you're not destined to be together - you obviously don't love your wife any more.
Thanks for your comments. I know your right. I love my family and dont want to destroy that. and what I have with this girl is speicial and I know if I do say anything to her I'm likely to destroy that as well. So I'm going to leave well enough alone. I just posted here to get it of my chest so to speak. For obvious reasons I could not talk about this to anyone and I felt like I was going to burst. so thanks for your comments
if you feel that way now,you will stray either now or in the future..give your marraige a shot and if it doesnt work out better to get it sorted first,
I hear you - but the minute you do it - you will feel deflated, anxious, totally messed up - dont do it - IF YOU ARE IN LOVE WITH YOUR WIFE AND WANT HER TO BE YOUR FUTURE - then dont do it -introduce a completely new sex life with your wife instead. dont throw away what is so hard to find. good luck with being a man.
You are going to destroy your family if you do that.
What you have to say is important. Write it here. Thanks.