Ok so i was at a work do and hooked up (kissed) with my old house mate who i really liked.... and the guy who i was seeing for the last 3 weeks asked me out the followin night. I fell guilty. Stupidly guilty. il never hook up with the work guy again cuz i really like my new BF. i just feel guilty. should I? I cant hurt him, im his first GF. I cant hurt him, he doesnt deserve it. do i keep quiet and enjoy my relationship? Now i feel like that i dont deserve him. I was waiting for so long for him to be with me....
Im seeing a guy for the past four months and meeting others...so no girl it aint a big deal,but sadly for me it is because he couldnt take it no more with me going off with all the lads i know....lifes a bitc*
Mar 10, 2010 @ 20:51
it doesnt mean nothing,i was meeting some guy for 3 weeks before and he was meetin other people before we went out and we were toghthere for 2 years....so it aint a big deal
Mar 08, 2010 @ 22:28
i see why u feel bad. but the fact is u werent with him when u kissed the other guy so uv no reason to feel gulty. if u do feel bad just tell him and get it out in the open he cant feel that bad about it
Feb 23, 2010 @ 10:20
dont feel bad you made a choice full stop. your 3 weeks not 3 years.
Feb 22, 2010 @ 22:09
Don't feel guilty. forget about it & move on with your new relationship. Telling him wont make either of you feel better
Feb 22, 2010 @ 15:17
So, are you saying you were seeing a guy for three weeks when you kissed the other bloke?? if thats the case then its not a huge deal. it was early days. if it's really eating away at you though, say it to him. explain though, that it was back then when things weren't serious. he should understand. although theres no real guarantee... keep quiet. its not a big deal.
Feb 22, 2010 @ 14:25
its only three weeks not three years you had a choice and you made it so dont stress its not necessary.
What you have to say is important. Write it here. Thanks.
Im seeing a guy for the past four months and meeting others...so no girl it aint a big deal,but sadly for me it is because he couldnt take it no more with me going off with all the lads i know....lifes a bitc*
it doesnt mean nothing,i was meeting some guy for 3 weeks before and he was meetin other people before we went out and we were toghthere for 2 years....so it aint a big deal
i see why u feel bad. but the fact is u werent with him when u kissed the other guy so uv no reason to feel gulty. if u do feel bad just tell him and get it out in the open he cant feel that bad about it
dont feel bad you made a choice full stop. your 3 weeks not 3 years.
Don't feel guilty. forget about it & move on with your new relationship. Telling him wont make either of you feel better
So, are you saying you were seeing a guy for three weeks when you kissed the other bloke?? if thats the case then its not a huge deal. it was early days. if it's really eating away at you though, say it to him. explain though, that it was back then when things weren't serious. he should understand. although theres no real guarantee... keep quiet. its not a big deal.
its only three weeks not three years you had a choice and you made it so dont stress its not necessary.
What you have to say is important. Write it here. Thanks.