Feb 24, 2010 @ 05:16|Comments (11)
Fine line between love n hate
i hate my boyfriend i hate how he tries to control me hate that hes so narrow minded he cant see anything outside his perfect view of his infallible self i hate that after over 2 yrs he still doesnt understand me and uses that against me i hate how he will resort to filthy tactics to get his way or win an argument but he cant handle it coming his way.....i hate that he uses his generosity to me and his kind actions to me as a weapon against me in an argument i hate that he gets in the way sometimes i hate half his personality half of who is but still... im with him, cant leave him, his security, cant face that conversation, cant make myself vulnerable to the possibility of making a mistake in leaving him... i hate myself
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do it leave him. I hate him too from hat description. It'll be worth it, you won't know yourself after a while.do it
I was in the exact same position as you but I didn't realise it until 5 mnths after my bf convinced me a mutual breakup would be a "good idea for us both". I prayed he'd have me back until i realised that the whole time he'd been using the words and actions of love as a weapon. Ur still in d relationship n u can call the shots n dont make him feel like you cant. u can get out n b who u really are. not just a toy he can play with. i dont even know u but i believe in u
TIME TO SAY GOODBYE. NO ONE SHOULD TREAT YOU LIKE THAT.B
Start taking steps to get out but don't tell him. When it's all set up, just leave. You really need to get out of this. Do u see how many times u used the word hate? Take some responsibility. It's only change. u can handle it.
I had a friend who got with a guy like that and stayed with him. now she is a shadow of her former self! she has lost all her self esteem and he is the only one she has left! You need to get rid of him b4 your life is ruined!
I stayed with a man who made me feel 2 feet tall. He eventually figured out that he wasn't in love with me and txt me on Christmas Eve a few years ago. It took about a year for me to find the pieces of myself that he had taken and put them back together. Now I'm with a man who truly loves me. You don't know how bad it was until you take a step back. You can only take the next step forward then. Have confidence in yourself. (Aretha Franklin - Respect, set to repeat on your iPod)
ive just broke up with my lad after 3 and a half years,,it tough but a weight has been lifted off my shoulders,,,dump him,,,hold your head up and get on with your life :-)
no he really is generous always taking care of me and it is sincere but it still ends up being subtly thrown back at me
They are not "kind actions" and it's not "generosity", because anyone who truly possesses these traits would never use them to emotionally blackmail someone to get their own way. He only does these things so that he has something to hold over you in an arguement, not because he actually wants to be kind. Maybe think about having a friend with you to support you if you do decide to have that conversation. There are better people out there.
i'll take him! i'm desperate!!!
oh my god wake up and take control of your life if you go on like this you deserve all that is dished out. loose him .... or yourself!
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