im wit my boyf 5 and half yrs n am nly 21. i feel like i shud be seein other fellas and all coz he was my 1st etc. i do luv him 2 bitz but still wonderin if de grass is greener? does dat make sense? shud i have a 1 nite stand n get it outa my system? shud i break up n start datin? or shud i stay cuz i luv him? am i realy missin out on nething at all??
I read the first five words of your post. For feck sake will you use ENGLISH when you're communicating? Bloody txt talk crap!
Mar 11, 2010 @ 10:50
break up with him, do it nicely, he's a man, he can take it. and if he can't he will learn a very important lesson from it. You're young, you should be enjoying yourself, so should he.
Mar 10, 2010 @ 13:37
You need to make a list of what makes you want to stay with him and what makes you want to end things....sounds stupid but sometimes it can make things clearer! If both sides are equal concentrate on your happiness...if you're not happy odds are that he isn't either. Don't act until you are one hundred per cent sure!
Mar 10, 2010 @ 02:21
I understand I broke up wit my gf for a similar reason.. We broke up 18 months ago and I've had sex with 5 other girls since but breaking up with her was my biggest mistake. Now she is seeing someone else... :-(
Mar 09, 2010 @ 21:13
S&THE CITY.DESP.HSEWIVES.I BELIEVE THESE SHOWS MAKE GIRLS FEEL THEY'RE MISSING OUT IF THEY DONT HAVE MULTIPLE SEXUAL PARTNERS & SCANDAL IN THEIR LIVES.BREAK UP WITH HIM,HAVE 1-NIGHT STANDS ETC.THEN REALISE THAT HE'S THE ONE FOR YOU,BUT BY THEN HE'S SO HURT THAT HE CANT TAKE YOU BACK.THERE'S NOTHING WRONG WITH BEING WITH ONE MAN-IF HE'S THE RIGHT MAN. DON'T GO & HAVE LOTS OF AFFAIRS 'CAUSE HLYWOOD HAS BRAINWASHED YOU INTO THINKING THAT YOU'RE MISSING OUT ON SOMETHING IF YOU DON'T.
Mar 08, 2010 @ 20:13
I was with my ex for 7 and a half years. From age 14 to 21 in the end it wasn't worth the time I wasted because we grew up wanting different things (and he turned out to be a manipulative ba****d) if I could have a do over I would get out of there because I was waaay too young for that kind of commitment and if you're questioning yourself maybe its a sign to get out of there.
Mar 08, 2010 @ 19:48
you say u love him but do u really
if ur saying all this, u need to think long and hard
Mar 08, 2010 @ 18:43
Put simply, I don't think you should. But more protruding for me is the insecurity and unstable nature of your person that shines through. Regardless of having a boyfriend, casual partners etc, you need to focus on you, your strength and your confidence. You need to be happy you are living your life, leading it, and are in control. Your relationship comes as part of that, not center of or antecedent to it.
Mar 08, 2010 @ 18:02
In my experience too many people have got married young or been with the same person from an early age and they are now in their 30s and doing the dirt all over the place. Get out, get dateing and if you still miss him then maybe see if he wants to get back with you..if he dosent theres your answer right there...or you might not want to go back yourself...
Mar 07, 2010 @ 11:36
break free your way way to young to give yourself to one person from 16? waow you need to get out and experience other people as much as he does. your body and mind are telling you something listen to yourself follow your gut!
Mar 06, 2010 @ 19:33
is the real question here "Should I learn english"?
Mar 05, 2010 @ 21:28
One night stand is bad idea. It won't solve your problem - would you be happier apart from him. I think you're too young to settle down. Depends if you're staying cause you're totally happy or if you're staying because you're anxious about being single. Tough one - sorry not much help.
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I read the first five words of your post. For feck sake will you use ENGLISH when you're communicating? Bloody txt talk crap!
break up with him, do it nicely, he's a man, he can take it. and if he can't he will learn a very important lesson from it. You're young, you should be enjoying yourself, so should he.
You need to make a list of what makes you want to stay with him and what makes you want to end things....sounds stupid but sometimes it can make things clearer! If both sides are equal concentrate on your happiness...if you're not happy odds are that he isn't either. Don't act until you are one hundred per cent sure!
I understand I broke up wit my gf for a similar reason.. We broke up 18 months ago and I've had sex with 5 other girls since but breaking up with her was my biggest mistake. Now she is seeing someone else... :-(
S&THE CITY.DESP.HSEWIVES.I BELIEVE THESE SHOWS MAKE GIRLS FEEL THEY'RE MISSING OUT IF THEY DONT HAVE MULTIPLE SEXUAL PARTNERS & SCANDAL IN THEIR LIVES.BREAK UP WITH HIM,HAVE 1-NIGHT STANDS ETC.THEN REALISE THAT HE'S THE ONE FOR YOU,BUT BY THEN HE'S SO HURT THAT HE CANT TAKE YOU BACK.THERE'S NOTHING WRONG WITH BEING WITH ONE MAN-IF HE'S THE RIGHT MAN. DON'T GO & HAVE LOTS OF AFFAIRS 'CAUSE HLYWOOD HAS BRAINWASHED YOU INTO THINKING THAT YOU'RE MISSING OUT ON SOMETHING IF YOU DON'T.
I was with my ex for 7 and a half years. From age 14 to 21 in the end it wasn't worth the time I wasted because we grew up wanting different things (and he turned out to be a manipulative ba****d) if I could have a do over I would get out of there because I was waaay too young for that kind of commitment and if you're questioning yourself maybe its a sign to get out of there.
you say u love him but do u really if ur saying all this, u need to think long and hard
Put simply, I don't think you should. But more protruding for me is the insecurity and unstable nature of your person that shines through. Regardless of having a boyfriend, casual partners etc, you need to focus on you, your strength and your confidence. You need to be happy you are living your life, leading it, and are in control. Your relationship comes as part of that, not center of or antecedent to it.
In my experience too many people have got married young or been with the same person from an early age and they are now in their 30s and doing the dirt all over the place. Get out, get dateing and if you still miss him then maybe see if he wants to get back with you..if he dosent theres your answer right there...or you might not want to go back yourself...
break free your way way to young to give yourself to one person from 16? waow you need to get out and experience other people as much as he does. your body and mind are telling you something listen to yourself follow your gut!
is the real question here "Should I learn english"?
One night stand is bad idea. It won't solve your problem - would you be happier apart from him. I think you're too young to settle down. Depends if you're staying cause you're totally happy or if you're staying because you're anxious about being single. Tough one - sorry not much help.
What you have to say is important. Write it here. Thanks.