Mar 12, 2010 @ 21:56|Comments (8)
No good Mum
I have a 2 year old daughter but my husband who is a stay at home Dad by day monopolises so much of her time, its like I dont exist. I love watching them play together but when I try and join in, its like I am in the way. Even in the mornings when my husband wakes up he dashes in to her room so happy to see her. Sometimes I wonder if I just left one day would he even notice. But I love my daughter soo much that I never would. I know she loves the fact that I feed her and bath her and put her to bed every night. But I am thinking maybe if I have another baby I might not be so lonely? I know they both don't need me all that much. I've stopped taking my pill....
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I should hope you informed your husband you're not taking your pill? I agree with the person above. Sounds like you and your husband are both trying your best, you just need to have a chat and explain your emotions to him. Childbirth and the years after are very tough on a woman - you are prob physically mentally and emotionally exhausted. Take some time out, both alone and with your husband.
How about letting him work for a while, taking a sabbatical and looking after your kids. To be honest it's pretty normal that they appear closer as he spends all day with her.
i cant believe you think having another baby is the solution. you need to sort out your relationship before having another baby esp if your husband doesn know your off the pill. sit him down and say you want to do things together as a family.
Sort out your family before you start adding more members.
your lucky,,the dad of my 2 year old,,prefers the pub then her,,its heartbreaking to hear her ask for him,,but he just doesnt care!!
You are clearly a loving mother - it's just the communication between you and your husband needs addressing. Partners compete, you know. Hard to believe but it's true. Maybe take time out for each other if you can and get someone to take care of her, if there's someone who will. You guys need to find yourselves again.
Talk to your husband, having another baby won't help...if he's the stay-at-home parent, he'll be looking after that one too, and you'll be no different.
Havin another baby is not d answer...try talk your husband about how your feeling he mightn't have a clue how all this is affecting you
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