Mar 15, 2010 @ 10:39|Comments (16)
drunk and cheated
On Friday i drank a bottle of wine while watching the tv. I had had only a sandwich all day so as you can imagine i was dunk after the wine. I then decided it would be a good idea to head out for last orders. Upon arriving in the bar i proceeded to down copious amounts of vodka and red bull the night gets pretty hazy after this and i dont remember much but what i do remember i dont like and i dread to think what i did that i can't remember. I remember dancing and i remember a fella hanging around me then i remember going to the bathroom then i remember kissing him but i dont know for how long and if anyone saw me the next thing i remember is being kicked out of a cab for not having any money. and then i woke up the next day at home. feel like shit oh did i mention i have a boyfriend for the last 7 years. I think what happened with yer man was that he was following me around the pub and saw an opportunity to take advantage. I think i pulled away and just ran off out of the pub. I feel like crap i dread seeing my boyfriend this weekend i dont want o tell him because if he ever knew he wold dump me and i dont want to break up with him. i cant tell my friends what happened they'd give out to me and i really dont need the guilt trip from them.
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I wouldn't go telling your fella but seriously what were you doing downing a bottle of wine then heading off drinking red bull bull & vodka..that's self destruction, depression or alcoholism at work. Take better care of yourself.
You should not feel guilty. You acted as you did for a reason and were more than entitled to. If your boyfriend can't understand and love you unconditionally then that is his problem. YOU are entitled to be loved, regardless of your actions pet. Start with loving yourself, beating yoruself up won't help in the slightest.
listen, if it is your first time to cheat i understand. These things happen to the best of us and i am a firm believer that everybody deserves a 2nd chance to give that to yourself.the guilt will prob eat away at you but in time you will think about it less and less and it wont be such an issue for u.at least now u know how much you love ur boyfriend and u can learn from this and never do it again.
we have all done things whilst drunk that we are not proud of i dont care you you talk to its true , give yourself a break, be honest with yourself about your ability to handle alcohol and indeed decision making and move on ! good luck....
The question I have is... what led to the booz binge? Were you out on your own or with Friends? is there something else going on in your life and was heading out and getting locked a way of acting out? Before being honest with your boyfriend - be honest with yourself. What was going on with you that lead to this booz fueled chain of bad decisions?
ya, i think what happened is you were drunk and spent all your money on booze, or maybe lost some, no point cryin over spilt milk, next time put and extra tenner in a hidden part of your wallet just for a taxi, problem solved. besides i dont think the taxi driver will remmeber
I'm a guy and I agree with the comment (2 up) It's not like ya shagged him. If you feel really bad just tell him honestly what happened. If you reckon he won't find out....dont bother...but only if you can handle the guilt. It's only a stupid kiss..... Oh alcohol.....
that kinda thing happend to me last week, bt thing is my bf nd i havent been OFFICIALLY together for a few months now.. nd hes been puttn me thru emotional hell sometimes.. however its
alcohol...
to the person who thinks her bf will alway use it against her he WONT! not if he really loves her!
he will nvr let you forget it. you will always have to deal with the guilt and if u did it once you will do it again drink is never an excuse if he hasnt hurt you to make you do it then you dont truely love him.
The bigger problem here is your decision to binge drink which led to your behaviour. What were you trying to achieve with the "bottle of wine while watching the tv...heading out for last orders...copious amounts of vodka"?
I cheated big time on my B/F, I kept it from him and he found out in the end. 8 years later, we're still together. Honesty is the best option! Just explain to him. Hopefully he understands. Stuff happens in life.....this is one of those things that just happens.
ok chill out if you know you did something wrong them panic if you really believe and and no proof of doing anything wrong forget it nobody died jesus get real ,real quick
explain everything to your boyfrend.. tell him you pulled away and left... i happened to be in a very similar situation and i told my boyfriend of 3 yrs what happened.. he was angry at 1st but he trusted me and we've gotten over it and are still really happy together! he wouldn be with you 7yrs if he didnt love you and as always honesty is always the best policy. sit your botfriend down and explain everything.you'd be surprised. you guys might be closer after it! Good Luck!
typical girl, do somethin to mess it up and then feel sorry for yourself. you cheated !!!
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